属于自己的，才是最真实的收获

非官方大哥

茫茫人海，能有多少人驻留心中；芸芸众生，又有多少情风雨同行；人海穿梭，多少熟悉的身影变得陌生；过客匆匆，多少擦肩转瞬便无踪影。人人都有错过，人人都有选择。人生的渡口，我们皆是过客。不是所有的人，都能知心。不是所有的缘，都能永远。有时缘分，不在于遇见多少，而在于真正拥有多少。有时朋友，不在于陪伴多少，而在于懂你的人有几个。人人都有失去，真正属于你的，永远不会失去。人人难免寂寞，并非冷漠，因为已经习惯了匆匆的转瞬而过。生命中，总有一些人，近了，远了，诉说着岁月的情分；总有一些缘，聚了，散了，经历着欣喜与离别。不能想，怕容易伤感；不能忘，因为心已留下过往。其实那些错过的东西，或许从未真正拥有过。属于自己的，才是最真实的收获。只有经历了失去，才会懂得如可去用心珍惜。
　　
　　每个人的内心世界，都有说不出的伤痛。不是所有的感伤都能倾诉，不是所有的苦楚都能流露，更不是所有的人都懂你的孤独。有些事看得过重，终会失去；有些人纠结在心，依然在乎。许是刻骨铭心，但又无法释怀；许是无法自拔，但又义无反顾。不管是沉默还是哭泣，过去的终归无法再继续。很多时候，都习惯了独自去承受一切。一个人的路，一个人的旅途，也要坚强着走出自己的幸福。
　　
　　每个人，都有自己的活法。不要拿着别人的征途，找自己的路。苦乐都是自己的，悲喜都得自己感受。最了解你的，永远只有自己，谁都不是谁的唯一，谁的全部。谁都可以放弃你，唯独自己不该放弃自己。别和自己过不去，感觉幸福就去珍惜，认为值得就去争取。心别太累，学会解脱自己；爱别太深，学会放过自己；活的别太委屈，学会善待自己。别输给自己，做好自己，走好自己，不要期望每个人都对你满意。
　　
　　有时候，我们总是觉的活的很累。再坚强的人也有脆弱的时候，再豁达的人也有委屈的时候。有些责任，必须承担；有些伤痛，必须承受；有些情绪，必须克制；有些风雨，必须勇往直前。人在世俗，有时候不是不知道，只是不想说出来；有时候不是不明白，而是明白了也身不由己。不愿想，是没人懂得；不去想，是看透了又如何；不想想，是想多了会更纠结。与其无可奈何，不如顺其自然；与其无法言说，不如随遇而安。因为活着，就是一直在历练。退，不是永远的退，只是给自己一个喘息的机会。进，永远不是进，只是给人生一个无悔的经历。难尽人意，但求无愧于心。付出的是心安，收获的才是理得。
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